CHER DEIDRE: I CAN’T stop myself flirting with a guy I work with.
I am finding myself really attracted to him.
He flirts back but I don’t think he likes me in that way.
Je suis 37 and have been with my partner for 14 années.
Il est 38 and we have two lovely children together.
But I am no longer happy with him and all I can think about is my sexy colleague.
I have never been attracted to him before.
Since he started working right next to me, I’ve started to feel myself being drawn to him.
I do want to be with my partner because I love him but I feel myself pulling away from him when he touches me.
I don’t know what to do.
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DEIDRE DIT: Flirting with your colleague may seem like a safe way to get your sexual kicks but it’s still damaging your relationship and you can easily get sucked into things going further.
À la place, pep up your relationship. Look at why you are feeling tempted.
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