DEAR DEIDRE: MY boyfriend hasn’t spoken to me since I had an accident during sex two weeks ago.
I have no idea what happened. One minute we were in the heat of passion. The next, I’d let out a little poo.
He leapt off the bed, got dressed and stormed out of my flat even though it was the middle of the night.
I was so upset and embarrassed. Nothing like this has happened to me before. I know it was gross but it wasn’t my fault.
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I’m a 23-year-old woman and he’s 25. We’ve been seeing each other for four months and everything was going great until then.
Now he won’t answer his phone or even reply to my texts. Have I ruined our relationship?
DEIDRE SAYS: Sex can be a messy affair and even embarrassing.
It’s all about letting go – and for some people, that means occasionally losing control of their bowels.
This can happen during sex or if you have a particularly strong orgasm.
Your boyfriend is being immature by ignoring your calls and ghosting you.
What happened means you are human. If he can’t handle this, perhaps you have to put it down to experience and move on.