亲爱的迪德: I MET a great guy and thought we’d take things slowly.
But he’s brought things to a halt and is ghosting me.
He’s 29 and I’m a 25-year-old woman.
We met online and he said his last relationship was toxic.
His ex had been messaging other guys so he didn’t want anything heavy.
We went to bed the following week, then he went cold on me.
He said everything happened too soon.
I didn’t hear from him for weeks, then he messaged me one night when he was drunk, saying he missed me.
We met the next day and he said he didn’t want a lecture.
I’m seeing him again now but for how long?
Am I just his rebound booty call?
迪德说: Explain to him casual relationships are not your style and you would like more, but you are prepared to wait.
Take your time getting to know him.
You call the shots for a change.
Don’t be too quick to have sex with him again unless he can really convince you that the relationship has got legs.