Mein Freund hat gesehen, wie meine Freundin mit einem männlichen Fremden ein Hotel betrat

MY friend says one evening he saw my girlfriend going into a city centre hotel with a male stranger. He said it looked as though my girlfriend had just finished work as she was dressed in a suit and carrying a briefcase.

We have been together for two years and have a great relationship.

I haven’t asked her directly about it, but it does seem odd that she would be there with someone

I haven’t asked her directly about it, but it does seem odd that she would be there with someone

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ich bin 31 und meine freundin ist 28.

We have been together for two years and have a great relationship.

I haven’t asked her directly about it, but it does seem odd that she would be there with someone.

I don’t want to assume the worst, but I can’t help sometimes imagining bad things.

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I know her being at this hotel doesn’t mean that she was doing anything wrong.

There could be a perfectly innocent explanation.

Should I ask her about it?

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Mia is spending her first Christmas with new lover Charlie

Es fühlt sich an, als wäre er betrogen worden

Mia is spending her first Christmas with new lover Charlie

DEIDRE SAGT: You are right – it may have been perfectly innocent so don’t jump to conclusions.

This stranger may have been a work associate, a friend or a relative but you do need to find a way to talk to her about it.

Keep your questions open and explain to her that you have no problem with her having male friends, but you were just wondering who this man was.

My support pack Standing Up For Yourself will help start the conversation.

WEITER IN HEUTE LIEBE DEIDRE Niemand hat mir erzählt, dass mein entfremdeter Vater gestorben ist, bis er in einer Kneipe einen Bekannten getroffen hat

LESEN SIE DEIDRES FOTO-FALLBUCH Mia is spending her first Christmas with new lover Charlie

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