My friend saw my girlfriend enter a hotel with a male stranger

MY friend says one evening he saw my girlfriend going into a city centre hotel with a male stranger. He said it looked as though my girlfriend had just finished work as she was dressed in a suit and carrying a briefcase.

We have been together for two years and have a great relationship.

I haven’t asked her directly about it, but it does seem odd that she would be there with someone

I haven’t asked her directly about it, but it does seem odd that she would be there with someone

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我是 31 and my girlfriend is 28.

We have been together for two years and have a great relationship.

I haven’t asked her directly about it, but it does seem odd that she would be there with someone.

I don’t want to assume the worst, but I can’t help sometimes imagining bad things.

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I know her being at this hotel doesn’t mean that she was doing anything wrong.

There could be a perfectly innocent explanation.

Should I ask her about it?

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迪德说: You are right – it may have been perfectly innocent so don’t jump to conclusions.

This stranger may have been a work associate, a friend or a relative but you do need to find a way to talk to her about it.

Keep your questions open and explain to her that you have no problem with her having male friends, but you were just wondering who this man was.

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