My girlfriend is a virgin and says my penis is too big and she won’t have sex

CHER DEIDRE: MY girlfriend refuses to have sex with me because she thinks my penis is too big and she is terrified it will hurt her.

But I’m sure I’m normal-sized, just average.

She says my manhood is just too big for her

She says my manhood is just too big for her

Je suis 30 and she’s only 21 and still a virgin.

She’s been too scared to try again since.

We’ve been together for three months now and this is becoming a major issue between us.

I really like her, but sex is an important part of a relationship for me.

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DEIDRE DIT: Try to be patient – pressuring her will make this worse.

Make it clear you really like her and will take things slowly.

Explain that sex – even losing her virginity – shouldn’t be painful.

The most important thing is to make sure she’s relaxed.

Enjoy lots of foreplay so she’s aroused, and stop if she’s at all anxious.

Give her my support pack First Time Sex to read. It should help.