我的婆婆是个可怕的人, 苦涩的女人,我不想让她出现在我的生活中

亲爱的迪德: MY mother-in-law is no joke. She’s a horrible, 苦涩的女人,我不想让她出现在我的生活中.

I’ve spent 20 years trying to please her.

我的婆婆是个可怕的人, bitter woman and I don't want her in my life

我的婆婆是个可怕的人, 苦涩的女人,我不想让她出现在我的生活中

Listen to the NEW Dear Deidre podcast

Resident agony aunt Sally Land is taking The Sun’s legendary advice column from the page to podcast.

Each week, Sally will be joined by an expert and some of your favourite celebs to give helpful, entertaining advice to listener problems.

A brand new episode will be available every THURSDAY.

这里, or wherever you get your podcasts.

Every time I see her, she criticises me – my dress sense, my hair, my choices. She even puts me down in front of my teenage children.

我是 43 and my husband is 45. 她是 84.

I’ve gone out of my way to be kind and helpful, cooking for her and buying her gifts.

All I get in return is nasty comments, 如: “Have you thought about lipstick to liven up your look?” or “You should get a better-paid job.”

与迪德尔取得联系

每个问题都会得到个人答复, 通常在 24 工作日的小时数.

发送电子邮件至 deardeidre@the-sun.co.uk

您也可以在 亲爱的迪德雷官方 脸书专页.

上周末, I reached the end of my tether. Should I just stay away from her in future?

My husband doesn’t help, insisting he wants to keep out of it.

迪德说: You don’t deserve to be her punchbag and you’d be entitled to stay away.

但是之后 20 years of nasty comments, perhaps it is time to stand up to her.

The next time she says something, you could say: “That’s your view, but I don’t agree.” Quietly but firmly.

我的支持包, Standing Up For Yourself, explains the techniques to use.

Your husband may say he wants to keep out of it but he should support you. Appeal to him again.