My partner and I fell pregnant after just four monthsyou helped reassure us

亲爱的迪德: I was in a right panic when I wrote to you. I’d been with my partner for four months, and suddenly I was pregnant with this child.

It’s not like we weren’t being carefulI was on the pill.

I was scared to tell him as it was so early on in our relationship

I was scared to tell him as it was so early on in our relationship

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But I’d started feeling sick all the time, and a quick Clear Blue test revealed I was two weeks pregnant.

我是 25, my partner’s 29 and we met on Hinge.

I’d just got out of a pretty awful long-term relationshipmy ex regularly put me down and controlled everythingfrom my bank balance to the clothes I wore.

So I had planned on dipping my toe in the dating pool again.

But then I met my partner. Everything was going well until I found out that I was expecting.

I was scared to tell him as it was so early on in our relationshipwhat if it was all too much for him?

But you told me to be honest, which I was. 幸运的是, my partner was thrilled.

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Our daughter was born in October, and she’s our world.

Now we’re happier and stronger than ever.

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迪德说: Honesty was certainly the best policy hereyou needed your partner to know the full story in order to help make your own decision.

I’m so glad it all worked out for you.

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