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赤ちゃんは出産後も生き残れないと言われました- それから私の健康な夫は突然死にました

WHEN Kelsey Ferguson found out she was pregnant with a baby boy, she was completely and utterly over the moon.

After marrying her college sweetheart Scott in 2016, the couple had spent a year trying to have a baby and Kelsey sadly miscarried their first child at eight weeks.

Kelsey and her late husband Scott met in college

Kelsey and her late husband Scott met in collegeクレジット: Kelsey Ferguson
The couple had been told their son wouldn't survive the birth

The couple had been told their son wouldn’t survive the birthクレジット: Amy Mullenmeister Photography

With the help of fertility treatment, the couple found out they were expecting again in 2017,

In a personal essay for Love What Matters, the mum explained how they were told their son had a heart defect and a chromosomal abnormality at the 20-week scanmeaning it was unlikely he would survive the birth.

彼女は思い出した: “The doctor came in to the room and said, ‘I’m sorry, he is terminal and will not survive.

Scott and I said we would not give up, and we would keep fighting for this baby until his last breath.

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結果として, Kelsey had to go into hospital for tests twice a week as the baby was measuring so small.

It was around this time that Scott started experiencing body aches, 関節痛, a nasty cough and feverbut the couple assumed it was a cold brought on by his new job and their recent house move.

オン 4 六月 2018, Kelsey was admitted to hospital for monitoring and told she’d be induced the following week.

After Scott visited her that day, Kelsey and her friend acknowledged that helooked paleand wasn’t himself.

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一晩, Scott started coughing up blood and called an ambulancewhich transported him to the same hospital as Kelsey.

Although he was originally placed in the Intensive Care Unit [ICU], Scott had improved so much by the afternoon that he was transferred into a regular room for monitoring.

I was able to get escorted from my room to see him twice a day for a few hours at a time on Tuesday and Wednesday,” Kelsey said. “He was still having a really hard time getting his oxygen levels up and was getting really frustrated.

When she didn’t hear from him on Thursday morning, Kelsey assumed Scott must still be sleepingbut she later found out he’d been transferred back into the ICU.

Scott and I said we would not give up on our son, and we would keep fighting for this baby until his last breath

彼女は説明した: “I went down there and they told me they needed to put in a central line into his neck because they were going to do a procedure similar to dialysis where they would take out his blood, clean it, and put it back.

For the procedure, Scott had to be sedated and his lungs were in a much worse state than doctors expectedmeaning he’d need to have a bypass.

悲劇的に, the dad-to-be went into cardiac arrest during the operation.

Looking back on the moment she was told, Kelsey said she immediately started throwing up before then yelling: “Is he gone?”

Doctors tried for another hour to revive Scott and did eventually get a pulseso he was swiftly taken back to the ICU.

この時点で, Kelsey was told Scott wasn’t in a stable condition and they wouldn’t know what damage the cardiac arrest would have done to his brain.

It felt like a bad dream that I would wake up from. Even now, it feels like it couldn’t have been real.

After speaking to the doctor, I was able to be with Scott for a bit. I sat next to his bed holding his hand, telling him how much his son and I loved him,” 彼女は言いました.

次の日, Kelsey was trying to get some sleep in a waiting room near around the corner from Scott when she was given the devastating news that there was nothing more doctors could do.

彼女は続けた: “I fell to the ground screaming. I threw up some more and couldn’t even believe this was real. It felt like a bad dream that I would wake up from. Even now, it feels like it couldn’t have been real.

その後, Katie rushed to his side and held his hand for hoursbut after almost fainting several times, her mum urged her to leave.

The mourning mum-to-be later found out that her husband was suffering from the autoimmune disease Wegener’s Vasculitis.

The day after Scott’s funeral, Katie was induced and was well aware that she might now lose her baby too.

オン 12 六月, Katie welcomed baby Maxley Russell.

彼女は付け加えた: “He was 2lbs 4oz and breathing on his own. He proved the doctors wrong, それ以来止まっていません. Maxley does have a heart defect and a chromosomal abnormality, neither of which are terminal.

After spending the first four months of his life in hospital, Katie was able to take Maxley home in Septemberjust three days after his dad’s birthday.

The following January, he underwent open heart surgery.

Although the operation itself went well, his condition plummeted in the following daysand in a heartbreaking twist, he eventually ended up on the same life support machine as his dad.

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驚くほど, Maxley pulled through that time and Katie reminds her son everyday how much his daddy loves him.

Read more about Katie’s journey on her blog Honeyed Heart.

Kelsey always reminds Maxley how much his dad loved him

Kelsey always reminds Maxley how much his dad loved himクレジット: Instagram/@kelseyjeanferguson/
He weighed just 2lbs when he was born

He weighed just 2lbs when he was bornクレジット: Amy Mullenmeister Photography
Scott suffered from an undiagnosed autoimmune disease

Scott suffered from an undiagnosed autoimmune diseaseクレジット: Kelsey Ferguson