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Sex drive has gone since daughter’s birthwe’ve not been intimate for a year

GELIEWE DEIDRE: MY daughter is almost a year old and my husband and I’ve not been able to be intimate since before her birth.

Ek is 30 and female. My husband is a lovely man of 35.

He tries to be romantic and do little things to turn me on but I’ve lost all interest

He tries to be romantic and do little things to turn me on but I’ve lost all interest

He tries to be romantic and do little things to turn me on but I’ve lost all interest.

I know it is an issue for him and I really want to feel that same desire, but I’m so focused on my daughter.

I’m still breastfeeding and it’s hard for me to feel sexy.

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Can you help?

DEIDRE SYS: Ja, I hope so. It’s not unusual to feel more of a mother than a lover after childbirth.

But it’s important to have time as a couple – independent of your important role as mum and dad. Arrange to spend time alone if you can.

You may now feel more confident leaving your daughter with someone trusted.

A weekend away could work wonders for your relationship.

My support pack Sex Problems After A Baby will help you to find your mojo.