親愛なるDEIDRE: MY mum says she will cut back on her drinking when she’s ready, but that time isn’t now.

She insists she doesn’t have a problem, but she is always upset after she has been out drinking.

小さすぎる問題はありません, 大きすぎる、または恥ずかしい. ここで私たちの個人的な返信を読んでください.

私は 24 and Mum is 55. 彼女のお母さん, my grandma, died a few months ago.

Mum lived with Grandma after divorcing ten years ago.

She has always liked a drink but only on nights out.

すべての問題は個人的な返信を受け取ります, 通常内 24 平日時間.

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I would really like her to get some help, but she refuses.

I don’t understand how I can grieve and feel sad, whereas she can’t.

I spent thousands on my wife’s birthday but she said I was tight

My husband keeps asking me if I’m cheating – やった 10 数年前

DEIDRESAYS: You’re right – she does need help.

When she’s sober, explain you are worried about her and her drinking.

Counselling will help her deal with the loss of her mum.

DEIDREのストーリー

Cruse (cruse.org.uk, 0808 808 1677) offers one-to-one and group sessions.

My support packs Coping With Bereavement and Dealing With A Problem Drinker? outline various organisations you can turn to for support.