DEAR DEIDRE: MOST of the men who write to you about erection issues can’t get an erection or keep it long enough.
Mine is the opposite problem – I last too long.
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While this might sound like a gift, what it means in practice is that my girlfriend worries that I don’t fancy her enough.
I’m 37 and she is 38. The truth is I think she’s absolutely gorgeous.
Also, because sex goes on for so long, it’s become really uncomfortable for her and she gets very sore down below.
She is starting to avoid sex with me because she’s not enjoying it.
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The quickest I can climax in is 70 minutes and sometimes it takes as long as 90 minutes.
Please help – I’m exhausted!
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DEIDRE SAYS: Some men do have trouble climaxing as they age, but they are usually much older than you.
I also hear increasingly from men who are watching so much porn that their usual sexual responses with their real-life partner are blunted.
Too much alcohol and smoking can also lead to a deadening effect when it comes to climaxing.
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The good news is that if you can cut back on any of these issues, you should be able to climax more normally.
My support pack Finding It Hard To Climax contains plenty more advice and tips to help you.