CHER DEIDRE: I AM obsessed with the pop singer Dua Lipa.
Tome, she is the perfect woman, both in looks and personality.
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I’m a 22-year-old guy studying at college.
I have watched all her music videos countless times, put pictures of her on my wall and got all the songs downloaded.
I really want a girlfriend but nobody compares to her.
I’m not interested in any of the girls I meet in real life.
They’re plain and boring in comparison.
I know my chances of ever being with Dua are very small and I don’t want to be single for life.
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DEIDRE DIT: Most of our crushes are harmless but yours is beginning to spoil your life.
You might think Dua Lipa is your perfect woman but in truth you do not know her.
She only seems perfect because she is unattainable.
You have fallen for a glossy image. In reality, she has flaws like every other human.
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Talking to someone could help you work through this. Contact The Mix (themix.org.uk, 0808 808 4994), which helps under-25s.
My support pack on Learning To Love should also be useful.