CARO DEIDRE: THERE is a guy at work who makes my heart flip but he is 18 years younger than me.
This guy is gorgeous and funny and I can’t stop thinking about him.
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Così, a few weeks ago, I took the bull by the horns and asked whether he was single and if he fancied going for a drink.
He said yes on both counts and took my number.
Sono 50 and he’s 32 but I am told I look pretty good for my age.
Even though we see each other every day, he hasn’t mentioned going for that drink.
I’ve messaged him twice saying: “How about tonight?” But he has ignored me.
Should I tell him how much I like him and ask him out again, or just forget about it?
He is the first person I have fancied since my divorce and I was so excited.
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DEIDRE DICE: It does sound like he only wants a working relationship, I am sorry to say.
It might be he feels the age difference is too big, or perhaps he does not want to get involved with a colleague, which some workplaces frown upon.
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Best put this one down to experience. Think of him as a friend and look for someone else.
My support pack called Finding The Right Partner For You has tips on how to do this.