DEAR DEIDRE: WHENEVER I have a shower, my brother takes nude pictures of me on his iPhone to wind me up.
I think he’s autistic because he doesn’t understand boundaries. I’ve told him to stop but he doesn’t understand why it’s so wrong.
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It’s making me want to punch him. He’s 20, I’m his 18-year-old brother and we still live at home with our mum.
Now I wonder if I should start taking pictures of him in the bathroom too, so he realises how annoying it is.
He’s always had problems with communication and normal relationships.
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If I try to talk about this he just laughs.
I love him, but I can’t take much more of this.
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DEIDRE SAYS: Lock the bathroom door. If there isn’t a lock, ask your mum if you can fix one.
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Please don’t punch him or retaliate by taking pictures of him. That will only cause more problems.
Talk to your mum and contact the National Autistic Society (autism.org.uk). It has forums where you can chat to others.#