标签档案: Tinder

I fancy an old Tinder flame but he is closing off because of his ex

亲爱的迪德: I HAVE reconnected with an old Tinder match, but we are taking it slowly because he is just getting over his ex.

I fancy the pants off him, but I am always the one making conversation.

He had given me hope we could be a couple

He had given me hope we could be a couple

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He had given me hope we could be a couple before and I was so happy as we have loads in common.

我是 26 他是 28. We’re planning to meet, but his ex is a big problem.

On one hand he tells me he’s looking for someone to hang out with, but then he is openly on Tinder at the same time.

I don’t know what I should be doing.

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Do I behave like a friend or a girlfriend?

I want to get things going with him but feel he is closing off because of his ex.

迪德说: He isn’t over his previous relationship yet, so isn’t ready for commitment with you, or anyone else.

Trying to have a relationship with someone who is unavailable means that you won’t get your needs met.

You’ll only set yourself up for heartbreak, so avoid becoming more involved until he’s ready to give you the relationship you deserve.